Unsolved Mysteries, How Does She Do it Edition
Jan 18, 2025I was thinking recently about what I was like as a little girl.I was very sensitive.. Most of my teachers didn’t see it as a strength. And It wasn’t something I could put on a resume, much less monetize.
Spoiler alert: Turned out to be quite, monetizable.
Today, sensitivity is one of my most critical—and profitable—skills. It helps me truly see my clients, their potential, and their invisible blocks. But I crashed and burned many times before learning how to channel it into my work.
Early on, I struggled in the tech-heavy start-up environment of Seattle. Literally no one told me that regulating my nervous system was something I could ask for or allow. I shuttled my tenderness to the side, deeming it a disability.
We all have brilliance we’ve been taught to suppress.
And success isn’t about powering through challenges despite them—it’s about alchemizing those challenges into your greatest gifts.
The struggles you master become the value you bring to the world.
We are working in a world rife with ancestral, societal and cultural limitations. Men, generally speaking, have played ‘money’ as a game. Whereas women? For us – especially if you are trying to cut your own swath in the world– it’s been more of a hunger game. It sure was that for me as a single mom.
Living actively in new levels takes consistent, steady reprogramming. I love helping my clients design income levels and then beautifully blow past them.
Success asks us to pour in—to RISK, and to go beyond our preset limits. To want more, and to ask for it. To demand that the world give us MORE.
It’s the reason I coach my clients to:
- Commit to reprogramming their nervous systems to handle more wealth and joy.
- Master the balance between serving others and receiving
- Recognize that overwhelm is an invitation to seek help—not a sign of failure.
Most of this is not taught in school—or business school, for that matter. Creating sustainable success as a woman in business is an ultra-marathon that takes guidance and support, because we are uniquely wired.
I love to help my clients get results like:
- Releasing long-held programming about how and where to market. For one client that action opened creative channels to an entirely new, next-level audience with huge financial potential.
- Managing serious health issues that called for time away and deep rest while watching sales grow with ease.
- Reaching sales numbers that surprise repeatedly, and in that experience releasing layers of fear about having to overdeliver. Growth with a lighter workload? Yes.
What gets a business across the line to its next level? It is almost entirely mindset. And as women we need to latch onto someone else’s to strengthen our own.
I talked about this in the first episode of my new mini-cast. Some people say success is 90-95% mindset. I will not disagree, because if you do NOT have the mindset, the strategy does not matter.
But if you have the mindset, you also need the structure. Why not have both? My new program RESOURCED is a beautiful combo. We are selling out! We can onboard one more person in January. $625 holds your spot. Is it you?