What We are Saying In Secret

inspirational snacks selfcare support trauma healing Mar 20, 2022
Shannon Conway
What We are Saying In Secret


I had a bunch of secret conversations with healers last week. Talks behind closed doors, where people say what is really on their hearts.

Everyone wanted the same thing: validation that their focus on being guided by dreams and being lit up is important, that it is valid. “Is it wise to be led by happiness?” People asked.

My take? It’s not easy to choose positivity and feminine flow (men too!)  and abundance right now. But it’s exactly right. 

The new economy is being created on energy. The coaches, healers and teachers who are marketing monster months and supported scaling are cracking this code. And if you read between the lines on their posts and in their newsletters they are getting healing, going to therapy and clearing energy every week. They are managing their inputs. They are curating their pods and teams. With vigilance.


To be hopeful in bad times is not just foolishly romantic. It is based on the fact that human history is a history not only of cruelty, but also of compassion, sacrifice, courage, kindness. What we choose to emphasize in this complex history will determine our lives. If we see only the worst, it destroys our capacity to do something. If we remember times and places where people have behaved magnificently this gives us the energy to act, at least the possibility of sending this spinning top of a world in a different direction. To live now as we think human beings should live, in defiance of all that is bad around us, is itself a marvelous victory. ~Howard Zinn


One of the more out there people I follow is Kim Anami, whose podcast is titled Orgasmic Enlightenment’. This morning as I was wrapping up edits on the newsletter you are reading, her latest episode popped in. It’s titled Energy Sex in the Wild. What? And you’re like, how is that related to the topic of being positive? It totally is. In her brief podcast she talks about Einstein’s principle of entanglement or ‘Spooky action at a distance’ as well as the water work of Masaru Emoto. Of course you can turn yourself on  with your mind. And you can turn someone else on too. It really is all energy, and our most essential task is getting our vibration up as high as possible. I could keep writing..how about the Maharishi effect and the work of Dr. Joe Dispenza? Your goal is to get into the jet stream of positivity. And stay there. When you fall out, get back in. 

Connect to healers, mentors and teachers who can help you draft this stream, and support you doing your personal work within it. That means they hold the light and honor your current step: trauma work, body healing, money blocks, visibility fears. We all work on the same shit. And when you hit your personal kryptonite you need to work on it, not bypass it.

Find mentors with capacity so you become that yourself.

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